tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-749404111767311785.post6977005678207147725..comments2023-04-05T03:02:19.912-07:00Comments on Raising Sunflower: Infertility and TrainsKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17679737244351418531noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-749404111767311785.post-11937500894838032312010-09-27T04:38:25.469-07:002010-09-27T04:38:25.469-07:00This is a fabulous post. True and haunting. You&...This is a fabulous post. True and haunting. You're right. You want to reach out to those folks, but the time isn't right and frankly will that ease our own guilt or help the other person. Hard to say. I have a friend who hasn't called for visited since the girls were born. She doesn't have children, I think she always wanted them. It makes me wonder.IF Optimist, then...https://www.blogger.com/profile/11634482448223302535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-749404111767311785.post-76513012749886234942010-09-21T13:24:38.795-07:002010-09-21T13:24:38.795-07:00I don't even have a baby yet, and already I fe...I don't even have a baby yet, and already I feel guilty. I can't fathom why me and not someone else. So many others are more deserving, have tried harder, longer, spent more and lost more. I'm so grateful and still so sad for where I was and could be again. It's such a weird feeling.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-749404111767311785.post-77847830698346633832010-09-18T18:23:42.073-07:002010-09-18T18:23:42.073-07:00telling makes a difference because not only does i...telling makes a difference because not only does it make the person feel less alone, but it shows them that it is possible, some of us do make it to baby, and if we can, maybe they can too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-749404111767311785.post-54567635676847896152010-09-17T08:35:56.183-07:002010-09-17T08:35:56.183-07:00I feel like I need to pass out a footnote when I g...I feel like I need to pass out a footnote when I get the stare I use to give pregnant women. I struggled too - I understand how hare it is to see this bump...I'm sorry I'm making you hurt right now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-749404111767311785.post-89156723891714130812010-09-17T05:29:27.534-07:002010-09-17T05:29:27.534-07:00I think telling helps us, because it does alleviat...I think telling helps us, because it does alleviate some guilt, but I think, moreso, it helps other infertiles to feel less alone, and let's the fertiles know that life isnt always "easy" and encourages a little more care around others.<br /><br />And you are so right- that imprint never fades.Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-749404111767311785.post-79936335963731234052010-09-16T22:05:49.560-07:002010-09-16T22:05:49.560-07:00That was a really wonderful post. Thank you for sh...That was a really wonderful post. Thank you for sharing.Esperanzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12375150088333673843noreply@blogger.com